Modules that Build a Product?

Not sure how to title this post. So I'm looking for either a shopping cart software that can handle this or a specific shopping cart software and module.

Basically I want one product but I want customers to answer a series of customers to sort of build-a-product and the final price will adjust.

For example, let's say I sell generic color apparel at an apparel store. A customer needs help finding what they want. The product page looks something like this:

QUESTION 1: WHO ARE YOU SHOPPING FOR?

dropdown: male/female

** so this filters out results **

QUESTION 2: SHOPPING FOR?

dropdown: pants/shirts/etc

** so this filters out results **

//////// basically your working your way down the list. Obviously there needs to be rules like if they answered X to question X than that rules out … a specific choice later /////////

I don't know if there is module software that can allow me to build this out or if it requires some detailed programming?

Just looking for suggestions. A lot of times even something simple like PRODUCT OPTION MODULES (ie: text field, dropdown, checkbox, etc) doesn't seem capable of handling anything close to this.